Looking for the perfect soft violet paint color for your home? Let’s talk about Benjamin Moore Misty Lilac and if it might be right for your home!
Soft, pastel violet paint colors are such a fun way to add color without going overboard.
They have just enough warmth to feel inviting and just enough coolness to stay fresh and peaceful. It’s really the best of both worlds!
I love using soft violets in smaller bedrooms, on shutters, or even as an accent wall when I want something subtle but still interesting. They bring a little personality without overwhelming a space.
If you're looking for a violet that’s soft, stylish, and totally livable, keep reading! Benjamin Moore Misty Lilac might just be for you.

Benjamin Moore, Misty Lilac, 2071-70
Misty Lilac is a dreamy, soft violet with a touch of pink. It’s warm, inviting, and just whimsical enough without feeling too colorful.
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Color Family
Misty Lilac is in the purple family.
Light Reflectance Value
78
Light Reflective Value is the measurement of how much light a color bounces around. This is on a scale of 0 to 100 with 0 being pure black and 100 being pure white.
With an LRV of 78, Misty Lilac is a very light paint color.
RGB Colors
R: 234 G: 227 B: 240
RGB describes the amount of each color - red, green, and blue - present in a color. This is on a scale of 0 to 255 for each color. This is basically the color mix to make the color!
Hex Code
#EAE3F0

Undertones
Misty Lilac is a soft violet with warm pink and cool gray undertones, giving it a unique ability to appear warm or cool depending on a room's lighting.
In south-facing rooms with lots of natural light, Misty Lilac will lean into its warmth. It will look lighter and show off its pink undertones, appearing more purple-pink.
In north-facing rooms that lack natural light, Misty Lilac will lean cooler and more purple, maybe even a bit purple-gray.
It's very important to swatch colors on your wall to make sure they look good – day and night – in your actual space before committing.
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Best uses
I love using soft violets like Misty Lilac for adding a subtle pop of color. Some of my favorite ways to use this shade are:
- Accent walls – Perfect for a bedroom or living room
- Built-ins & cabinetry – Adds a soft, unexpected touch
- Interior or exterior doors – A unique, welcoming vibe
- Shutters – Especially with white or gray exteriors
- Ceilings – A soft lilac sky effect
- Furniture – Works wonderfully on dressers or nightstands
- Small bedrooms – Cozy but airy
Similar ColoRS
- Benjamin Moore Sugarplum
- Behr Blissful
- Sherwin Williams Inspired Lilac
- Benjamin Moore Raspberry Ice
- Behr Sweet Bianca
- Sherwin Williams Elation
- Benjamin Moore Purple Cream
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Coordinating Colors
Misty Lilac pairs beautifully with neutrals such as crisp whites, grays, and blacks.
You can also pair it with soft or bold shades of blues, pinks, violets, yellows, and greens, depending if you want a calm, romantic palette or something louder and playful. The options are endless.
Cool, bright whites:
- Snow White
- Chantilly Lace
- Ice Mist
- Distant Gray
- Wedding Veil
Dark blue-grays:
- Eclipse
- Wolf Gray
- Black Pepper
- Smoke Gray
- Britannia Blue
Moody blues:
- Bella Blue
- Schooner
- Thousand Oceans
- Mozart Blue
- Blue Spruce
Trim Colors
Misty Lilac pairs well with both bright whites for trim.
- Benjamin Moore Simply White
- Sherwin Williams Extra White
- Behr Ultra Pure White
Misty Lilac color palette
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FAQS
Here are some common frequently asked questions about Misty Lilac.
What's the difference: BM Misty Lilac vs Sugarplum?
Misty Lilac and Sugarplum are similar soft violets.
Misty Lilac is a bit lighter, more saturated, and more purple, and Sugarplum slightly darker, more muted, and leans more blue.
These two are pretty similar, so it's helpful to swatch them side by side. Then you can see which one feels right in your space.
What color is Misty lilac?
Misty Lilac is a dreamy, soft violet with warm pink and cool gray undertones.
Is BM Misty Lilac warm or cool?
Purples can go either way. Some lean warm with red or pink undertones, while others feel cool with blue undertones.
Misty Lilac is a warm purple because of its pink undertones; however, it also boasts cool gray undertones, which make this color quite unique! Misty Lilac will read warm in brighter spaces and cool in darker spaces.
Swatch it in your home and see what you think!
Is BM Misty Lilac too bold?
Not at all! Misty Lilac is a soft, pastel violet. While it’s more colorful than a neutral, it has a cozy, peaceful vibe rather than a bold, saturated feel.
Want to be sure? Swatch it in your space and see how it looks throughout the day.
Does Misty Lilac look pink?
While Misty Lilac often appears purple, it can look more purple-pink in brighter spaces such as south-facing rooms that receive a lot of natural light.
In darker spaces like north-facing rooms or interior rooms, it looks more solidly purple.
Lighting makes a big difference, so testing a sample in your home is the best way to know how it will look.
Does Misty Lilac look good in a bedroom?
Yes! Soft violets like Misty Lilac can make a small bedroom feel bigger and brighter by reflecting light.
For a light, airy look, pair Misty Lilac walls with white or light-colored furniture. If you have a larger bedroom and want a cozier feel, you might prefer a deeper purple.
As always, swatching it in your space is the best way to see if it’s right for you.
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Thanks for reading!

Meg Hemmelgarn is a freelance writer and home decor + DIY blogger who loves to talk about paint colors. She and her husband are currently renovating their third fixer upper. You can see their projects on her blog, Green With Decor.




